There is no “Secret Sauce” to Finding Success

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Success is about making a promise to yourself that you are going to go out and do what’s required to get the result, and then do it.

I was asked, “How is it that you get yourself to make that shift from hoping, wishing, and dreaming for certain results inside of your life, to becoming a person who does and takes the necessary required actions to create those results for themselves?” That’s just one question and there have been many others. People want to know: Do you just have to flip the switch to make that transformation? They want to know what is the magic pill that they can take to create the life they truly desire?

And so I’ve been thinking about this lately. To go from the person that hopes, wishes, and dreams for results inside of the Big 4 areas of life, to a person who actually goes out and lives the life that they want happens when the pain of not having whatever it is that you desire becomes so unbearable, that you’ll do anything to get it. That pain represents your reason “why.” The reason that is so deep and so strong inside of your life that it gets you to take action on what is required to fulfill your goals.


I have talked about this in other articles of mine about your Holy Cause. It’s one thing to sit here and say that you want to change, that you want to transform, that you want a different result in your life, but until the pain is truly big enough, you know deep down inside that you will not do what’s required to get what is desired. You can think back right now to a time in your life where you did do what was required, and I guarantee you, you can also think back to the pain you had inside of your life that ultimately compelled you to make that shift.

Alongside the pain being a driving factor, there also comes a point when you have to stop breaking promises to yourself. There has to be a point where you become a person of your word. When you say you’re going to do something, people can count on it, and they know that it will be done. If you tell them that you’re going to be somewhere or that you are going to take a certain action, they know they can count on you. But even more important are the promises you make to yourself. Because if you can’t keep those promises to yourself, keeping promises to others won’t matter.


So what is it that will get you the life and the results that you truly want inside of the Big 4? There is no magic pill. There is no secret sauce. It comes down to recognizing the pain of not having that result in your life and making the decision that you do not want to experience that pain any longer. It’s making a promise to yourself that you are going to go out and do what’s required to get the result, and then do it. Be a man or a woman of your word. No longer tolerate breaking promises to yourself or anyone else. Hold that Holy Cause, so close to you, guard it with all of your life, and ruthlessly take action to get what it is that you’ve been hoping and wishing and dreaming for.


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